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Oh man. About to really get out of my comfort zone with this. • I’m not seeking compassion, and I’m definitely not wanting pity. • Lately I’ve really been emphasizing (and feeling) the importance of separating your worth
“Change happens with people in privilege as protectors.” • I heard this (I forgot the originator 🙈) and it really struck me. • Do you feel the responsibility in that? Yes, you. It applies to me, too. You, me, and the rest of u
Obedience. It's something we [typically] praise and demand with our youth. "Do as I say." "Accept what I tell you." • We can communicate this directly or indirectly. At school and at home. • Yet…we want them to
NO ONE but you knows ALL of your wins. • No one but you knows each time you override a snap judgment, or grant yourself grace, or soften toward a situation/person. • Only you know ALL of your victories, big and small. So get used to ackno
NEW podcast episode! Another hard-hitting and stellar conversation in my ongoing series on addiction. Today’s guest is Hallie Hanohano-Erickson ( @hanohaha ) who shares her perspective of a loved one watching her brother and “brother-in-
We’re exposed to more today in 24 hours than people were in their whole lifetime 25 years ago. (Per a study cited by Jay Shetty on his podcast. Disclaimer: I tried but couldn’t find the study). • But if you think about it, it makes s
There are many experiences/activities I avoid because of safety concerns. Not only that, I (and most women) have certain habits and precautions and considerations for mere daily life, for something as simple as a trip to the grocery store. Things
I’ve royally screwed up. • I’ve been the villain. The brat. I’ve been the victim. I’ve been the _____ (take your pick of labels). As have virtually all of us. • But we’re more than that. And I do mean that co
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